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Saturday, May 1, 2010

Playing Catch Up

Life has been hectic this past week, and I am playing catch up... big time. Ready for the big news? I guess you have to be if you're reading this.

We moved the date up to June 5th! Eeeeeks! *cues freak out mode*

I have pretty much turned into a crazy woman, and I am trying my very best to cross off as many things on our to do list everyday. Remember I'm the girl who lived with the thought of "if I don't think about this wedding, then I can pretend it won't happen." Yeah. Well it's definitely happening, and it's happening over 2 months earlier than expected. The new date was decided last Sunday, and we're a month away from the big date. Wowzers...

So let me back up and explain why we made such a crazy decision. It does make a lot of sense, just not to our sanity. H's grandparents' health has been declining for the past two or three month, and we're afraid that they may not be able to attend if their health worsens. It means a lot for us to move up the date to increase the possibility of them attending. I don't want to live with any regrets. I know that if I wait for August to come around, I will feel guilty that I just stood there and didn't do anything to make the situation better. It's a pretty extreme decision, and I was the one who brought it up to H. He agreed. We spoke with his parents. They agreed. I later talked to my parents, and they agreed too. It just makes sense to us right now. If something were to happen to either one of his grandparents, there would be no wedding this year. I don't mind pushing the wedding back another year or even two. I just want to do everything in my power to make sure they can be there.

Before H and I were engaged, his grandparents would sometimes tell us to get married now so that they can be there for the wedding. They were not getting any younger, and maybe we should have pounced at the opportunity. No worries. We'll get married ASAP.. on June 5th.

Ba & Ong - Christmas 2006

Since I have the big news out of the way, it's time to continue planning. Next up... maybe engagement photo inspiration? The big dress reveal? Just kidding. I did buy three wedding dresses, and I tried each one of them on yesterday at work. That was fun. =) Stay tuned.


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